Being a bridesmaid comes with various roles and duties you should be prepared to be up for and others the bride shouldn't even think to ask you to do in first place . But one major no-no is being asked to drastically change your normal physical appearance for her big day—which is essentially what happened to "bridehairthrowaway," who is a bridesmaid for a daughter of a family friend. "Yesterday morning I received an email from Ella," she told Reddit . "It seemed pretty standard but then when she got into the look she wants for her bridesmaids she wrote 'Bridehairthrowaway, you'll