What they may not tell you about s*x during marriage counseling

I have had the need to post this topic for quite a while, but I guess I just wanted to be comfortable

posting it. This is my first time of being unconventional in my write-up, but I’ll do it anyway, so help me God.

Disclaimer: (this is basically for intending couples who are waiting till marriage. If you don’t feel comfortable with this post kindly go through my other posts, I care about you and your well-being)

I had a ‘hot conversation’ with my dear friend, who is also a relationship coach. I believe there’s a lot that ladies need to know beyond the usual advice that is being given during some marital counselling. I’m sharing this for ladies (and men) who decided to wait till marriage or remain celibate till marriage, yea they exist. My friend is excellent in her coaching business, trust me, she discussed other things that I can’t post here, but I’ll just take those advice *winks*. If you want to know more about it, you can contact her here +2347063175497.

These are the highlights of our discussion.

• God create s*x to be enjoyed in marriage.
• Be transparency about your s*xuality. 
• Be flexible, spontaneous and liberal when it comes to it.
• Be playful around the house, try new locations.
• Don’t overthink things, especially when it’s your first time.
• It’s healthy to take a break off s*x and improve your PDA.
• Don’t share your s*x life with your friends.
• Don’t condemn your partner, s*xually.
• Give yourself a boost of early morning intimacy, it will set you both for a bright day.

I believe it’s essential to always improve on our sexuality in marriage, that’s one of the major bond between you and your spouse.